Monday, November 28, 2011

T is for Thanks and Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving, the time of year one is thinks about how much they are thankful for in their lives. This year definitely put that into perspective for me. Being in New York this year for Thanksgiving made it a bit harder for me to really enjoy the holiday without being surrounded by family, but thanks to the amazing friends I have met in New York I was able to spend the holiday not alone. A few things I am greatful for:

My family: Without their support and love I was able to take a giant leap into the next chapter of my life, moving here to New York. If it wasn't for my parents and the continued support from my sister (the pro at moving to different states) I would have not found the confidence to do so. All of my family has been huge supporters in this next chapter in my life and I am truly thankful to have them as my family.

My job: It's true, during this economy and time of year having a job is something to be thankful for. I am thankful for my aunt and my boss in helping me get to where I am today. Without their help, belief in me and continued support who know's where I would be. Here's to continued learning and enjoying my job to the fullest.

BDHOF dinner
My friends: I am thankful for the wonderful group of friends I have. Those I still keep in touch with back in California (miss you too Phi Sigs!) as well as the great new group of friends I have made here in New York (Big Deck House of Fun!). Especially thankful for friends taking me in during the holiday and being able to celebrate with everyone during our own Thanksgiving. What a wonderful evening of friends, laughter, a large delicious spread brought by all and a heart felt toast. Here's to many more to come!

Monday, November 21, 2011

Myer Briggs Personality Test

So had a discussion with my boss about the Myers Briggs Personality Types and whether they are really applicable to everyone. I decided to take a free online test and see how much of the description fits true to me. My results: ESJF (Extrovert/Sensing/Feeling/Judging).

Extrovert: You are social and outgoing. You are most comfortable when with other people and experiencing the world first hand. Interaction with others and first hand experiences energize you. It is not unlike you to start conversations with strangers. You have a preference for the outer world: people, activities, and things. Other people provide you with a mirror, sounding board to help you develop ideas and plans. Being alone may sap your energies. Your concept of the world is derived from experiencing it firsthand and then drawing conclusions.
I definitely feel this fits me in most ways. I am one for always being out in the world, meeting others and tends to not like being alone for too long. I enjoy social interaction and different things.

Sensory: You usually gather information with your senses: what you can see, hear, taste, touch and smell in the physical world. The facts gathered from the sensory data you process are the building blocks of your model of our world. You concentrate your energies on what actually exists and do not ponder what might exist too much. You are usually practical and rely on your common sense to guide you through the world. You see things as they are and have little or no need to search for underlying meanings.
I would say most often I gather information with my senses in the physical world. Although there are times that I base my ideas/decisions on facts as well. Seeing things as they are is exactly how I like to view things. Underlying meanings are sometimes necessary to search for, but I believe in facts and seeing things/people for how they are.

Judging: You like decisions to be made as soon as possible. You are not comfortable with loose ends and like to see conflicts resolved as soon as possible. You have a preference for a well-structured, orderly lifestyle with few surprises. It may not be all that important who makes the decisions that gets things done as long things do get done. You take commitments very seriously. While you are not inflexible, you do like to stick to a plan once it is set into motion.
This is definitely true about my personality. I like to have decisions made quickly and don't like indecisiveness; although I will admit I can be at times. In addition, I do prefer order and structure in my life but it does not rule my life. I have become less orderly as I have realized that sometimes one just needs to go with the flow and enjoy spontaneity.

Feeling: You make decisions subjectively based upon your values and what is important to you. How people will be affected by your decisions is important to you. You are likely to make decisions based upon what you feel is acceptable and agreeable rather than what is logical. Your truths are founded in your values and those of the society you live in. It is important to remember that we are discussing how you evaluate data and make decisions, and that you rely on your feelings to do so in no way implies you are overly emotional.
Values are very important to me and have a large influence in my decision making process. I will say that I actually make decisions more based on what is logical than how I feel even if I'm not 100% sure it's the best option. Logical reasoning sometimes trumpts emotional feelings.

Your Personality Type: You approach life with enthusiasm, and are very social and charming. You are compassionate, agreeable and cooperative. You like to be helpful-- an asset and want to be needed. You can be relied on to see things through. You're trustworthy and loyal. You do not like conflict. Harmony is definitely your ally. You do not like to be alone for too long, if at all. In relationships you are compassionate and considerate. You can be very talkative at times, and will strike up a conversation with almost anyone. You try to see the best in people. You are not one to take a stand that will offend others. Social stauts is important to you. You can be counted on to keep family and social traditions alive and well.
Overall this personality type sounds like me. I will say though that social status is not that important to me. As long as I am happy with where I am and what I am doing, I don't need to be the most well off and popular. I agree that I am trustworthy and loyal, don't like being alone for too long, and helpful. I always try to put others before me and help them/be there for them anyway I can. Everyone knows I am not a homebody and get bored easily. I often feel the need to be with someone, out doing something, etc.

What's your personality type?

Monday, November 7, 2011

N - Navigate
I have been in New York quite some time now and still have yet to really navigate my way through the city. I often times get lost and have to ask for help or have to turn around. My goal is to able to confidently make my way around the city as well as navigate to new parts of the city and its surrounding suburbs. Trips to Brooklyn anyone?
O - Organize
Everyone who knows me is probably asking, why organize? You already a very organized person. I choose organize because lately I have not been the most organized person that I usually am. After having moved across the country I felt my life was so unorganized in New York, not just physical but mentally/emotionally. I have finally started to sort out what I need to do, what needs to be forgotten and how to make myself feel centered and in control again.
V - Volunteer
I have been in New York a little over 6 months now and I finally have settled into a schedule that allows me time to begin volunteering again. A fellow kickball teammate of mine informed me about NY Cares, a volunteer organization that provides limitless opportunities to volunteer. November is National Homeless Youth Awareness Month and I plan to volunteer in events that are geared toward homeless youth throughout New York City.

 
E - Embrace
Embrace those around me, the wonderful city I live in and the wonderful opportunity life has given me. There are moments when home sickness sets in but I have realized that I am truly grateful for the opportunities I have been given and I am very grateful.
M - Mantain
Mainting friendships is a hard thing to do when one moves across the country. Even when I moved home after college for 9 months, maintaing friendships is always hard. Although you know the friends you can count on to always be there, its those who you wish would be there that you have to keep in touch with to maintain those relationships. I'd say I have done by best through emails, texts, Facebook, cards and phone calls to maintain those friendships that I plan keep for a long time. Here's to continuing to do so.
B - Budget
Living on your own makes you learn to do a lot of things, budgeting being one of the most important. Between rent, bills, food and other necessities, budgeting can make life a lot simpler and less stressful when the time comes for bills to be paid. I've never been great a budgeting, but moving here has made me started to become better. Lets kick off November on a great foot!
E - Educate
Not being formally educated in the field of my job, my goal is to become more informed about environmental, health and safety on a daily basis. Whether it be attending trainings which I am now in charge of organizing, asking my boss and fellow colleagues questions or looking into enrolling in college courses, I plan to learn everything there is to know about what I am involved in.
R - Read
My great group of friends here are constantly sharing books, offering suggestions and discussing books they have read. I have recently joined in on the book borrowing process and have read The Wonderous Life of Oscar Wao, which was an amazing book and suggestion. Thanks Janssen! So I have aquired a second book, The Corrections. My goal is to keep up with this as I have missed lesuirely reading instead of required by school or work.

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Goodbye October, Hello November

Tom, Me, Nicki & Mandy
 for Mandy's Birthday
Goodbye to the month of many great times:
- Trivia, kickball and floor hockey nights
- Supporting friends running 5K's
- New Jersey Devils vs Los Angeles Kings hockey game
- Celebrating Mandy's birthday at Central Bar
- Kareoke with friends
- Nicki's housewarming party
- Sunday get togethers at Big Deck House of Fun
- Dad's visit to New York

Here's to November!